Do you have “imagination intelligence”?

Photo of a hand very gently holding a puffy white cloudWhat do you want to be different than it currently is?*

Can you imagine it?

Can you look at and experience what’s here now, and then imagine something different?

Do you have the courage to imagine something different?

Can you step outside the mindset of how it’s always been – and see something new?

Can you manipulate the future in your thoughts – in your imagination – and discover new possibilities?

Or are you stuck in the past? Mired in a victim mindset? Convinced you can’t DO that?

Imagination is a key leadership skill.

Envisioning a different future, different options, new possibilities, new ways of doing things – without this, you can’t plan, you can’t grow, you can’t advance. Personally or professionally.

How will you develop your imagination intelligence?


* This refers to things within your control. We would all like the pandemic to be “different than it is,” and there are certain things that we can control (you know what they are; I don’t need to repeat them), certain things we cannot control (likewise), and some things we have influence over (possibly family, friends, colleagues).

When working with imagination, we must remember those three spheres: what we can control, what we cannot control, and what we have influence over.

Imagination applied to anything we cannot control is at best daydreaming and fantasizing, and at worst victim-thinking and depression. Don’t go there. Be clear on this.


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Improving team morale … in difficult times

When your team is distracted, drooping, upset over what’s happening (whatever it may be), what can you do to get them back on track, engaged and productive again? How can you raise your team’s morale, even when things are hard? In this video, you’ll learn five non-cheesy tips to help boost your team’s morale and get them focused again.

Resources

Article on saying “thank you” in the most effective ways: https://www.gracejudson.com/why-thank-you-isnt-enough/

Managing Workplace Gossip video: https://youtu.be/j5BTMNEfr5M

Managing a Gossiping Employee: https://youtu.be/rb4EnlioIaw

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The stress of Not Knowing

Upside down and hanging onPeople are starting to really feel the effects of extended upheaval and stress … and not knowing.

It’s hard. All of it is hard. Not knowing what’s going to happen, not knowing who will get sick, not knowing who’s already sick and about to infect you.

Not knowing if you’ll have a job (if you currently have one), or find a job (if you don’t). Not knowing how long all of this is going to go on. Not knowing if you’ll ever feel comfortable going out to dinner, attending a party, or even just going to get your hair cut.

Really, really freaking hard.

We’ve all had to deal with not knowing in our lives. The challenge right now is that there’s so much more not knowing going on, and life as we did know it feels turned completely upside down.

Actually, it doesn’t just feel that way; for many of us, it is completely upside down, and for all of us, it’s somewhat upside down.

How do we deal with it? How do we help our teams, family members, and friends deal with it?

I wish I had some magical answers. I do have a few suggestions.

“Future You” does know

I’ve said this before, and it bears repeating.

There’s a Future You who knows what happened.

Take some time to just sit and breathe that in.

And ask yourself … what did Future You do to get through this time?

MOVE

Our brains and bodies did not evolve to live with extended high-alert stress – but here we are, nonetheless.

It takes a toll. It’s exhausting.

One way to burn off some of that excess adrenaline and cortisol is to MOVE.

Run. Dance. Bicycle. Do jumping jacks. Do something.

Yoga is great, but for this, you need big, energy-burning movement.

Connect

Video calls are great. I can’t imagine how we’d be getting through all this if it weren’t for video calls.

But three-dimensional people are better.

We’ve been having “six-feet-apart, BYOEverything” parties on the weekends. Two other couples, they bring their chairs, beverage, and nibbles of choice, and we hang out in the driveway. My husband draws chalk marks, complete with smiley faces, on the concrete, six feet apart, and there we take our places.

At the end of the evening, everyone is surprised at how fast the time went – and how much fun it was.

You may not live where this is possible, but if you do, do it.

Accept lower productivity

The constant sense of danger that comes from so much disruption takes an energetic toll.

Add to that the pressure to keep up with everything, do all your work from home, manage your team remotely, figure out how to keep the kids occupied (and learning at least something relevant to their schoolwork), stay on top of everything the house, garden, and pets need, and oh, yes, get groceries …

There’s a lot going on.

So don’t fall for the social media prompts that say, “Oh, well, since you have so much time on your hands, why not learn something new, write the next great American novel, create that immaculate garden you’ve always wanted,” and so on and so forth.

You probably have less time on your hands than BP (Before Pandemic). And even if you do have more, you also have more stress that’s burning up available brainpower. So don’t push yourself to do All The Things.

Accept lower productivity. Accept that some of your employees are going to be a tad scatterbrained. It’s okay – and even if it’s not, it’s still reality, and compassion for yourself and everyone around you will make all of this at least a little easier.

There is another side. We don’t know – YET – what that looks like. And someday we will.

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Micromanaging: a communication problem?

Cartoon of fierce blue eyes with frowning eyebrowsMost people have had to work for or with a micromanager at some point in their career. (If you’re one of the lucky few who haven’t, congratulations – and I hope your luck holds!)

Micromanagement, according to Wikipedia, is:

a management style whereby a manager closely observes and/or controls and/or reminds the work of his/her subordinates or employees. Micromanagement is generally considered to have a negative connotation, mainly because it shows a lack of freedom in the workplace.

I’d add that it shows a serious lack of trust, as well.

There’s one single instance where micromanaging is appropriate: when you’re working with an employee who’s just learning a new skill or process. But then it’s not micromanaging at all; it’s training.

Micromanaging is often viewed as a control-freak problem, where the manager in question is so invested in their own sense of control – and so fearful of being out of control – that they can’t let go. They insist on knowing every detail of what’s happening, what’s been done, how it was done, whether it was done the way they’d do it, what hasn’t yet been done, why it hasn’t been done, when it will be done …

It’s exhausting, for the manager as well as for the employee.

So let’s look at what you as the manager – or you as the employee – can do differently.

You, the manager (employees, read this too)

First off, if you’re reading this, congratulations: you’ve acknowledged that you just might be a micromanager.

Next, consider the title of this article: could your micromanaging tendencies be a communication problem?

Do you have, or have you had, employees who don’t provide status updates, but leave you flapping in the breeze when your management asks what’s happening?

Perhaps you’ve been burned in the past when something went wrong, but you didn’t know about it in time to take action.

Maybe you’ve had to deal with an employee who thought they were capable of completing a task or project, and you didn’t find out in time that they weren’t.

At heart, you know micromanaging isn’t efficient or effective. You know it’s irritating your employees and taking up big chunks of your time – time better spent elsewhere. But there it is; you keep getting sucked in.

I suggested in the title of this article that micromanaging is a communication problem.

What communication process could you put in place to feel less like you need to constantly check up on your team?

What about a weekly status update – an email every Friday at noon?

That’s just a suggestion, and maybe during a critical project phase or high-stress time you’d need a daily update.

Whatever you choose, you’ll know that the update is coming, which will help you resist the urge to call, email, or text your employees to ask what’s happening.

Also, read this: The Dangers of Delegation (true story, with dog)

You, the employee (managers, read this too)

Your boss is hanging over your shoulder, watching everything you do.

Maybe not literally, maybe not every minute, but it feels that way.

You’re afraid to make a mistake. You dread “doing it wrong” (meaning, not the way your manager would do it). Never mind the possibility of missing a deadline.

I’m going to ask you to consider one of my favorite questions.

Why would a reasonable person do this?

Meaning, Why would a reasonable person micromanage their employees?

I know what your immediate answer is – they’re not reasonable!

Set that aside. Pretend. Imagine hard. And think about what I wrote, above, for the manager.

Is it possible that you don’t communicate enough for them? Is it possible that, as I suggested, they’ve been burned by bad communication leading to real problems? Could you communicate a little more?

Perhaps you can go to your manager and ask How would you like me to provide status updates? I can send you a weekly email, for instance. Would that help?

Depending on your relationship, you could gently mention that you feel a bit watched, not to mention hovered over… and that it slows you down and makes you less productive than you’d like to be.

Or you could send them this article!

For both of you

Micromanaging isn’t good for your career, whether you’re on the receiving end or the micromanaging end.

Find a way out, whether that’s through better communication or some other path.

You’ll both be happier, more productive, and more successful.

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Brainstorming … with a remote team

Trying to figure out how to brainstorm on video?

Wondering what you can do to pull your remote team into a brainstorming session that will actually work? (Yes, your suspicion that brainstorming sessions are often less than wonderfully effective is true!)

In this video, I share my two top approaches for effective brainstorming with remote team – OR in person. And my guess is that you’ve never tried at least one, and maybe neither of them.

Resources

Tomato-cutting article: https://www.gracejudson.com/sandwiches-or-salad/

Article: “Stop the brainstorming madness!” https://www.gracejudson.com/stop-the-brainstorming-madness/

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You’re the BOSS of you – if you want to be

Photo of a hand breaking through a piece of paper pointing directly forwardI love it when a client takes control of their career instead of letting it drag them around.

But it’s painful and frustrating when I see another client struggling to take initiative, to do the research, to actively own the process of becoming better at what he does.

I suspect our educational system and overall cultural approach to raising children is at fault. We expect rote learning in schools, parents expect obedience from children, and rebellion – which might simply be creative thinking – is squashed.

Not everyone wants to be a business owner. Not everyone wants to be the company CEO. That’s fine.

And it’s pretty obvious that not everyone can be a business owner or a corporate CEO. We need employees, or the device you’re reading this on would never have been made.

But if you want a fulfilling, meaningful career – if you want a fulfilling, meaningful life – you need to think about what “fulfilling” and “meaningful” mean. (Hint: it doesn’t have to be entrepreneurship or the corner office.)

Do you know what you want?

And I don’t mean things. I mean your life experience. Which is made up, in essence, of your career, your relationships, and your self.

Do you know what you need to do and become to get it?

Do you evaluate the continuing relevance of what you want?

Do you adjust your course when you go off track?

Yes, it takes effort, thought, intention, time. And yes, it’s risky and vulnerable.

But if you settle for being spoon-fed – told what to do and when and how to do it – then you get what’s in the spoon.

No choice there, and too bad for you if you don’t like it.

 

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Remote Team Meetings – 7 Quick Tips

Trying to hold meetings when everyone’s working from home, the dog’s barking, and the cat’s trying to sit on the keyboard?

Here are seven quick tips to make your remote team meetings productive and enjoyable when you’re all working from home! (In fact … don’t look now, but your meetings just might be even better than they were when you were all sitting around the conference table together!)

Resources

Hilarious video on the Conference Call in Real Life: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYu_bGbZiiQ

Follow the hashtag #TheLeadershipGeekWorksFromHome for more tips:

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Managing the emotional labor of leadership

Photo of exhausted woman with her forehead resting on the edge of her laptopThere’s a reason you end the day tired, worn out, and even exhausted.

Management and leadership are hard work.

The mental and emotional work of keeping track of your team’s progress, understanding what’s going on for each team member individually, being aware of what they need from you in the moment, interpreting your boss’s priorities (and moods!) …

It’s a lot.

Add on the pandemic, creating layers of anxiety and stress as people struggle to keep themselves and their families safe while also trying to decipher this whole work-from-home thing, and it’s a really lot.

Emotional labor often goes unrecognized. Or – worse – the resulting exhaustion is sneered at as wimpy or as “just” a women’s thing, a feminist complaint.

While it’s true that women generally shoulder significant emotional labor that men don’t, emotional labor is not, by any means, something only women deal with. In fact, management and leadership require a great deal of emotional labor, as this article from the Harvard Business Review website points out.

So how do you manage it? How can you keep yourself from being depleted and exhausted by the end of the day, and drained by the end of the week?

Acknowledge the reality

It’s easy to think that something is wrong with you because you’re worn out and end up collapsing on the weekend. After all – you might think – you didn’t really do anything that difficult. There was no overtime. You didn’t exert yourself physically in any unusual way. It’s not like you’re a construction worker, hauling heavy stuff and scaling roofs all day.

Stop right there.

You did do mental and emotional labor, and the brain does demand food and rest, just as your muscles do.

Emotional labor is real, and it takes a toll. You wouldn’t question being tired after a hard day working in the garden or painting your dining room. Don’t question why you’re tired after a hard day of emotional labor.

It doesn’t mean you’re a wimp. It means you’re a human doing hard work.

Talk about it

Once you’ve acknowledged the reality, it’s time to help others understand as well.

Just like you, your team is going through a lot right now. Trying to work from home when you’re not used to it, especially when the entire family is also stuck at home and everyone’s stress levels are high (which means everyone is doing more emotional labor than usual) – it’s hard.

Talk about it with your team. Acknowledge it for them as well as for yourself.

And talk about it with your family, too, and encourage your team to talk with theirs. Everyone – even young kids – is experiencing extraordinary stress, uncertainty, and confusion right now. Unusual circumstances and disrupted routines all take (wait for it…) extra levels of emotional labor. Bring the subject into the open and normalize it for everyone.

Manage it!

You need time to recover from emotional labor, just as you would from physical labor.

And everyone’s preference for recovery is different.

Some people may need quiet time with what one client calls a “fluffy” book – something mindless but amusing.

Others may want to play an intense round or two of Scrabble.

Or take a hike out in the fresh air.

Play with the dog.

Dive into a hobby.

And so on. There’s no “wrong” way to recover, and every person gets to decide what’s best for them.

Just don’t choose something (such as binging on news or social media) that actually adds to your emotional-labor burden.

And take care that your recovery preference doesn’t require emotional labor from someone else … who may not have it to give.

Micro-breaks help

You generally can’t sit down to read a novel or head out for a hike in the middle of the workday.

But you can take micro-breaks.

Make a list of small things you can do to give your brain a break. You’ll be amazed at how refreshing a five-minute pause can be, whether it’s a short session of chair yoga, a moment outside to feel the air on your face, or  a few minutes to love up your dog or cat (or goldfish, or bird, or whatever) – one of the perks of working from home!

With a list at hand, you won’t have to waste time thinking up what to do when you have a few moments available. (And – ahem – having to come up with an idea is emotional labor!)  Got five minutes before your next meeting? Pull out your list, pick something, and there you are: a little ease just arrived in your day.

Finished with a task and ready to switch to the next thing on your to-do list? Stop! Take out that list, find a five- or ten-minute idea, and give yourself that break.

Energy management is important

Emotional labor is a fact of life, just like physical labor.

And just like physical labor, pushing too hard on the emotional labor leads to injury.

Tired is okay. Tired means you exerted yourself in some way, and it can feel good to be pleasantly tired at the end of the day.

Exhausted and resentful is something else again.

Exhausted and resentful at the end of every day and every week are clear signs that you’re headed for burnout.

Stop before you get there. Because recovering from burnout takes a long time – just like recovering from a broken bone or torn ligament.

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Communication for Managers – Styles and Solutions

Communication is one of THE most important skills for managers.

How you communicate impacts everything you and your team do every day. Delegation, explaining goals, defining expectations, giving feedback, handling conflict and disagreement – it’s ALL ABOUT your ability to communicate well – your communication skills.

And that starts with understanding the five different communication styles, as I describe in this video.

Resources

I’m offering the worksheet and style guide from my Empowered Leadership program for you to download here: https://www.gracejudson.com/ytcommunicationstyles/

How are YOUR leadership communication skills? Take the quiz! https://www.gracejudson.com/leadership-communication-quiz/

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How are you identifying “hi-po” leaders?

Graphic of business people standing on brightly-colored puzzle piecesWhat are you doing to make sure the right people are in your Emerging Leaders program?

Assessing your current workforce allows you to evaluate who’s ready for advancement and training.

But while the usual practice is to select the high-potential (a.k.a. “hi-po”) individuals, that’s not always the wisest option. It’s an acceptable starting point, but we need to remember that high-potential employees are often classified as such by alert, aware managers – in other words, by the managers who are excellent leaders themselves.

What potential is lurking in other areas of your organization, and how can you discover it when their managers aren’t already sponsoring them?

I’ll answer that question in a moment. I want to first address the question of what to do with these people once you’ve found them.

Where does leadership capacity begin to be developed? How and when are management practices and habits acquired?

You’ll notice that the second question doesn’t ask about “good management practices and habits.” And that points directly at the answer to the question.

Leadership capacity and the ways in which a manager functions – those practices and habits – starts when an individual is promoted from team member to manager.

As a manager yourself, you, like everyone I’ve talked with about this, undoubtedly remember that time. A client experiencing this transition exclaimed, “My whole world is upside down!” And that’s exactly what it’s like.

It’s simple enough: if a newly-promoted manager isn’t supported in learning how to manage and lead well, there’s a high risk that they’ll learn bad habits and practices. A CEB Global report, cited on Inc. magazine’s website, indicates that nearly two-thirds of managers fail in their first couple of years. And we know that many, if not most, employees who quit, do so because their manager has driven them to seek a better experience elsewhere.

If someone has earned a promotion to management, surely they’ve also earned the training and support to succeed in their new role. And if we want to avoid manager failure – and all the costs associated with it, including the cost of replacing them and the employees who quit because of them, not to mention the expense of their failed or delayed projects – then surely we can justify the cost of training and support.

I suggested earlier that it’s strategically smart to look beyond the obvious “hi-po” employees for your candidates for leadership training.

But how do you do that? How do you find the first-line managers who have potential, but aren’t being sponsored by their managers?

Here’s how: ask for applications.

Make it an open application process where anyone who wants to qualify for the training-and-support program have to submit a formal application.

I suggest these criteria:

  • Compile a set of questions requiring knowledge and understanding of your industry and your company. The answers should be essays, not multiple choice, in order to demonstrate the applicant’s written communication, critical thinking, and logic skills. Be careful not to expect manager-level thinking; remember, the whole point here is to qualify them for management and leadership training!
  • Ask them why they want to be a manager and leader. What does it mean to them personally? This is not the outdated question “where do you want to be in five years?” It’s about their values and desire, beyond the increase in pay, to advance and be a true leader.
  • Require a memo of recommendation from their immediate supervisor, at least one peer, and one other manager within the company.
  • Consider blind submissions, if at all possible. We know, sadly, that certain identifying characteristics – name, gender, race, and so on – often trigger bias, whether unconscious or overt.
  • Convene a panel of five to review and rank the applications. Make sure they have clear guidelines for accuracy and readability. Ask the panel to review each application individually, and then meet as a group to go over the top candidates. How many they ultimately accept is, obviously, dependent on how you design the training-and-support program – in-house, outsourced, time span, budget, and so on.

When you leave it up to managers to select employees for professional development programs, there’s an aspect of randomness to it; it depends entirely on those managers, who may or may not be aware, or have the time, and so on. To the individual employee, it appears largely out of their control, based on whether their manager recognizes and acknowledges their hard work, “likes” them, and wants to reward them.

By conducting the selection process in this way, the candidates are more involved, more engaged, and more likely to fully participate in the training program. You’ll also discover some hidden gems in your employee population that might otherwise have gone unnoticed – and perhaps have simply gone, off to a company where their qualities and talents are appreciated and rewarded.

Obviously, this takes some time and effort.

But given the risks involved, and the potential reward, isn’t it worth it?


I think I hear you thinking … who has time to do all that?!

I can help. And probably for a lot lower cost than you might expect. Put yourself on my calendar and we’ll talk about what you’re doing now, and how I might be able to help. No obligation, no pressure, no problem!

Schedule a Call

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